“…‘If any man will come after Me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.” – Luke 9:23 (KJV)
In Christianity, true discipleship means putting God first, fully committing your life to follow Jesus Christ, not just in words but in actions, in our daily choices, character, and lifestyle.
Paul demonstrated powerful discipleship after his conversion and his conversation with God. He gave up his former life of persecuting Christians and travelled widely preaching the Gospel, enduring persecution, prison, and suffering for Christ, leaving us an example.
Therefore, some key elements of true discipleship include:
1. Obedience – i.e., following Jesus’ teachings even when it’s difficult. After all, He does say, “If ye love Me, keep My commandments.” (John 14:15, KJV).
2. Self-denial – putting God’s will above your personal desires. We are encouraged to take up our cross daily and follow Jesus (Luke 9:23).
3. Love for others – we must show genuine love and compassion to be called disciples (John 13:35).
4. Spiritual growth – we are to participate in praying, studying the Scriptures, and displaying Christ-like character as we mature in God’s kingdom.
5. Bearing fruits – i.e., loving in ways that reflect transformation, humanity, faithfulness, and patience, thus teaching others to emulate the same (reproducing faith).
Brothers and sisters, discipleship begins with a call to die (death to self) and to recognise Jesus not only as our Saviour but also as Lord, meaning He has all authority over our lives. It also includes surrendering our will, ambition, titles, and more. Scripture says, “For whosoever will save his life will lose it…” (Matthew 16:25, KJV).
The foundation truth of discipleship is costly because it demands surrender, repentance, obedience, love, sacrifice, fruitfulness, and relationship. This means surrender, ‘my’ way, ‘my’ plan and ‘my’ control, and choosing God over personal preferences.
Remember, we cannot follow Christ while holding on to what He calls us to leave behind:
1. Sinful habits, attributes, and lifestyles.
2. Unhealthy relationships, wrong influences, obsession with status, or approval.
3. Fear (of rejection, persecution, losing)
4. Bitterness and unforgiveness (holding onto resentment prevents spiritual maturity).
5. Our old identity (we are a new creation in Christ)
Yes, as disciples, we are called to let go of worldly attachments and turn to Him.
Read: John 8:31; 2 Corinthians 5:17
Bible Reading Guide: Psalm 40:1-8; Luke 8:40-56; Luke 9:1-9; Numbers 31:25-54; Numbers 32